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BDSM-names

A Comprehensive List of BDSM Names – The Kinky Dictionary

BDSM names play a vital role in BDSM. They’re not just labels but powerful tools that express identity. Names help participants define themselves, shape relationship dynamics.

How To Come Up with BDSM Names

Your BDSM name, also known as a scene name or play name, is a personal expression of your role and identity. It’s more than just a label; it’s a chance to reveal a part of yourself that may not always be visible in your day-to-day life.

Nature of Your Role

Consider the nature of your role within BDSM. Are you a nurturing and caring Dom, a mischievous and bratty Sub, or a versatile Switch? Your BDSM name can provide a glimpse into your BDSM persona.

Personal Kinks and Fantasies

Think about your specific kinks and fantasies. Is there a particular activity or scenario that really excites you? Incorporating elements of your kinks into your BDSM name can be a fantastic way to connect with like-minded individuals.

BDSM names

Be Creative and Unique

Get your creative juices flowing. Don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Your BDSM name is a chance to be unique and stand out. It should capture your essence in a way that feels genuine and exciting.

Wordplay and Puns

Wordplay and puns can add an element of fun to your BDSM name. If you enjoy humor in your play, this can be a great way to reflect it.

Privacy and Discretion

While creativity is essential, consider the level of privacy you desire. Many BDSM enthusiasts prefer to keep their BDSM life separate from their vanilla life. Choose a name that allows you to maintain the level of discretion you’re comfortable with.

Test the Water

It’s perfectly fine to try out a few different BDSM names until you find the one that feels like the perfect fit.

Male Dominant Names

Dominus Count Czar
Sir Knight Magnum
Master Viper Marquis
Baron Pharaoh Warlord
Lord Ruler Zeus
King Sire Viking
Emperor Alpha Maverick
Duke Sultan Gladiator
Captain Caesar Rogue
Tyrant Don Jaguar

Dominatrix Names

Mistress Empress Sultana
Domina Baroness She-Wolf
Goddess Governess Tsarina
Queen Maitresse Warrioress
Lady Highness Valkyrie
Madam Regent Enigma
Vixen Seductress Sensualist
Femme Fatale Baronette Tease
Enchantress Contessa Empoweress
Princess Diva Dominatress

Gender-neutral Names for Doms

Arbiter Instructor Patriarch
Authority Laird Patron
Autocrat Lead Principal
Captain Leader Proctor
Commander Lordship Professor
Conductor Magistrate Regent
Controller Manager Regulator
Custodian Mastermind Ruler
Director Mentor Sire
Dominator Monarch Sovereign
Executive Moniteur Steward
Governor Monitrix Superintendent
Guardian Monseigneur Supervisor
Guide Overseer Warden
Handler Owner Your Highness
Head Host  

DDLG Daddy Names

Daddy Captain
Papa Master
Dada Coach
Papi Boss
Sir Guardian
King Prince
Big Bear Grandpa
Caregiver Lion
Protector Hero
Sir Daddy Commander

Male Submissive Names

Admirer Knight Puppy
Babyboy Little Servant
Boy Loyalist Sir's Boy
Brat Pet Sir's Toy
Caged Pig Slave
Chosen One Pleaser Subby
Daddy's Boy Princeling Submissive
Devotee Property Toy
Jester Pup  

Female Submissive Names

Girl Goddess Tease
Slave Sweetheart Enchantress
Babygirl Property Captive
Kitten Precious Lollipop
Little Siren Sweetness
Subby Babydoll Damsel
Doll Blossom Little One
Angel Fawn Seductress
Subservient Minx Delight

Gender-neutral Names for Subs

Acolyte Companion Pet
Admirer Comrade Playful Companion
Adorer Confidant Playmate
Ally Devotee Plaything
Attendant Disciple Precious
Beloved Enthusiast Pupil
Cherished One Favorite Servant
Chosen One Follower Supporter
Collaborator Partner Treasure

DDLG Little Names

Babygirl Pup
Princess Little Miss
Little One Dolly
Sweetie Cupcake
Kitten Teddy
Angel Pixie
Bunny Babydoll
Bambi  

Sub Names With Humiliation

Slut Sissy
Whore Loser
Bitch Dog
Slave Piggy
Trash Cuck
Worthless Brat
Filth Toy

Final Words

The names you use in BDSM are like the costumes you put on for a play, helping you both enter into your desired roles and enjoy the experience fully. So, embrace the creativity and adventure that BDSM names can bring.

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