Category: BDSM

Leather Erotic toys of all kinds are more than in demand, so it’s no surprise that new leather BDSM shops seem to open their doors every day, especially online. But not all of these stores can score with quality, selection, customer friendliness, seriousness or discretion. Our article presents the 12 best online sex stores that deliver […]

What is sensory deprivation BDSM? Sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch are the senses available to most people. In BDSM you like to play with them, remove, manipulate or stun them with the help of various equipment . Sensory deprivation is the technical term, loosely translated meaning deprivation. Deprivation comes from the Latin “deprivare”, which […]

Let’s start at the beginning: BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance  & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. It’s all about a certain form of power and submission that is often (but not necessarily) acted out in sexuality. 1 Good to know: The basic terms of BDSM The world of BDSM has its own language. So before […]

What is a fetish party? Unfortunately, this question cannot be answered briefly and concisely. Why? Quite simply: There isn’t just one fetish party, but rather a large number of events . Each is to be considered individually. There is no fixed definition of what a fetish party looks like, how it works and what goes […]

The range of BDSM roles and fetish personalities is almost endless and many overlap. Be it in motivation, behavior or executed kinks. In order to bring some order to the chaos, here is an overview with a brief description of the around 50 roles. D-Type Individuals playing above consensually take physical, emotional, or mental control […]

What is FRIES? FRIES is an abbreviation for one of the many consensus guiding concepts in BDSM that one can orientate and lean on. Such concepts make communication easier, especially with new contacts, and how you want to play with each other . In addition, they give beginners an overview of how to deal with […]

What does fetish mean? According to Wikipedia, the word is borrowed from the French word “fétiche”, which in turn is derived from the Portuguese “feitiço”, denoting the worship of objects to which divine or magical properties were attributed. Karl Marx later took up the term and used it to describe the quasi-religious relationship that mankind […]

In BDSM , one speaks of edge play when a type of play involves a certain safety risk for the body or psyche . As the name suggests, it is an umbrella term for border experiences and border crossings. Play on the edge of the abyss, if you will. Edgeplay poses some risks of potential […]

What is CNC(Consensual Non-Consent) or Metaconsensus? BDSM is always based on mutual consent , the consensus between all parties. This distinguishes BDSM from an act of violence or assault because it means that everyone agrees with the actions. In this context, one comes across the abbreviation CNC again and again. The abbreviation CNC stands for […]

BDSM: Four letters, six terms… The abbreviation comes from the first letters of the English terms ” Bondage and Discipline “, ” Dominance and Submission “, ” Sadism and Masochism“. This includes a range of sexual practices that are related and considered unusual by the general public. From the outside, BDSM games are hardly comprehensible […]