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Body writing is a playful and creative way to explore each other’s bodies and express your desires. It can add a new level of excitement and anticipation as you slowly reveal each word or image. What is Body Writing? Body writing is a fun and intimate activity where one partner writes or draws on the […]

In the world of BDSM, there’s a type of role-play that’s both intense and controversial: rape play. It’s a form of consensual non-consent (CNC), which might sound like a contradiction at first. But here’s the deal: it’s a way for adults to explore a fantasy of power and control in a safe, controlled, and consensual […]

Brat Tamers are adept at managing the delicate balance between allowing a brat to express their mischievous nature and maintaining the dominance required to keep the brat in line. This involves setting rules, enforcing discipline, and sometimes ignoring the brat’s provocations to assert control. What is a Brat Tamer? A Brat Tamer is a dominant […]

A licking slave is someone who really enjoys licking and pleasuring someone else. They might be into licking all sorts of things, but it’s not just one type of thing or one way to do it. Some licking slaves are all about objects, like cleaning stuff with their tongues for their dominant partner. Others are […]

In the BDSM scene, there are certain behaviors, known as “Red Flags,” that suggest manipulative or selfish intentions, ignorance, or lack of knowledge. Recognizing these red flags is crucial for your safety. This article focuses on the “Dangerous Dominants” and provides a list of ten warning signs, particularly relevant in the initial stages of getting […]

Drugs: The term alone can cause unease. They’re often seen as illicit, hazardous, yet intriguing. They offer a sense of liberation and euphoria. For some, this seems like an enhancement, even in BDSM. However, similar to alcohol, mixing drugs and sessions is a poor choice. Intox play, or playing under the influence of drugs, is […]

A Gentle Dominant and a Soft Dominant are terms often used interchangeably to describe a style of dominance that emphasizes a more nurturing, caring, and gentle approach. Both terms refer to a Dominant who, while maintaining their authority and control, focuses on creating a safe, loving, and respectful environment for their submissive partner. What’s a […]

Ownership kink can exist in various relationship structures, including monogamous and polyamorous relationships. It’s a diverse and inclusive aspect of the BDSM community. What is an Ownership Kink? Ownership kink is a unique aspect of BDSM relationships where the dominant has a form of “ownership” over the submissive. This isn’t about literal possession, but rather […]

A Pleasure Dom is a dominant partner who is all about giving their submissive tons of pleasure. Their main goal is to give their partner as many mind-blowing orgasms as possible. They really get off on controlling their partner’s pleasure through things like edging and teasing. What Is a Pleasure Dom? A Pleasure Dom is […]

A BDSM little is a person who often submits, either through their actions in a BDSM scene or within their personal mindset by means of a power exchange. They can range from child-like to childish in their appearance and behavior, both in and out of BDSM. Littles come in every shape, size, race, ethnicity, sex, […]